There’s a silent scream echoing through bedrooms, courtrooms, and cremation grounds.
A scream that never makes it to wedding albums.
A scream muffled behind the forced smile of a bride or groom who didn’t choose their partner… but were chosen for each other.
What happens when marriage becomes a prison sentence written by parents, stamped by society, and forced upon two strangers — one of whom is already in love with someone else?
Sometimes, the result is quiet suffering.
Sometimes… it’s murder.
Yes, literal blood on the wedding bed — because someone wanted to live with their lover but was chained to someone else.
A husband who stabbed his wife because he was in love with another woman.
A wife who poisoned her husband — not because she was evil, but because she never wanted the marriage.
And society?
It watches like a mute accomplice.
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The “Love” That Vanishes Overnight
What about those decade-long relationships that end the moment marriage is brought up?
“I have a career to focus on.”
“My parents won’t agree.”
“I can’t hurt my mom.”
“I need more time.”
After 8 years? Suddenly, your priorities change?
This isn’t heartbreak. It’s emotional fraud.
One person is dreaming of a home, while the other is planning an escape.
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Extramarital Affairs – The Modern Norm
Swipe culture.
Late-night “office calls.”
Secret emotional bonds.
Infidelity is now a joke in memes, a plotline in movies — and a disaster in real life.
Husbands confide more in other women than in their wives.
Wives cry on the shoulders of “just a friend.”
Marriages look perfect in pictures… and feel like hell behind closed doors.
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Parents Who Play Puppeteers
The manipulation doesn’t end with the marriage — it begins there.
Mother-in-laws who micromanage.
Fathers who command obedience.
Sisters and brothers who treat the couple like puppets.
A marriage can’t grow when it’s being remote-controlled by ten hands.
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Dowry, Alimony & Legal Extortion
Marriage today is a dangerous financial deal.
Dowry hidden as “tradition.”
Alimony that feels like rewarding betrayal.
Some women misuse laws.
Some men marry only for money.
Marriage is not sacred anymore.
It’s a gamble.
And the legal system often turns the knife.
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The Walking Wounded
There are still people out there who believe in real love — in loyalty, commitment, and shared dreams.
But now, they’re walking around with scars.
With trust issues.
With silence where there used to be hope.
Why?
Because the ones who promised forever vanished without a word.
Because abuse, cheating, lies, and manipulation came dressed in the name of marriage.
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We Want “Old School” Love – But No One Wants to Be Old School
Everyone says, “I’m old school.”
They want loyalty, respect, commitment, real values —
But don’t have even an ounce of the mindset or maturity required to live those values.
They say the words — but they’re just high-fy quotes on Instagram.
Empty. Fancy. Fake.
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Modern People, Ancient Expectations
Today’s generation has invited their own destruction.
They don’t want to change a single thing about themselves —
But expect their partner to change everything.
They demand unconditional love, patience, and maturity —
While offering emotional immaturity, mood swings, and double standards in return.
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Women, Stop Thinking You’ll “Fix Him” After Marriage
To the women who say, “He’ll change after marriage” —
He won’t.
Marriage doesn’t change people. It amplifies who they already are.
If he’s irresponsible, cold, unkind, disrespectful now — he’ll be worse later.
You’re not marrying a “project.” You’re marrying a person.
And your belief that you can fix him? That’s the first step toward ruining yourself.
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What Can We Do? Practical, Uncomfortable Truths
Let’s stop sugarcoating. Let’s grow up:
1. Only Get Married If You Have the Capacity for Lifetime Commitment
Not everyone is built for monogamy. And that’s okay.
But don’t enter a marriage to “try.” This is a lifetime vow — not a relationship experiment.
2. Discuss Every Want, Need & Non-Negotiable Before Marriage
Children or no children?
Sexual compatibility?
Finances? Social boundaries?
Religion? Family interference?
Don’t assume. Ask. Clarify. Align.
3. Keep Others Out of Your Marriage
Parents, siblings, and friends — stay out.
Marriage is between two people only.
If you need your mother to mediate every fight — you weren’t ready to marry.
4. Stop Performing on Social Media
“Best husband in the world.”
“Queen of my life.”
If your love is real, you don’t need a hashtag.
If your marriage is strong, it doesn’t need PR.
5. Women: Stop Discussing Your Marriage with Everyone and stop making issues in the name of Feminism only when it’s convenient to you
Unless there is abuse or cheating,
stop running to your friends, mom, and sister for every tiny fight.
They’ll add fuel to your fire. And you’ll burn your own home.
“He didn’t give me 30 gifts on my 30th birthday, he asked me to give him a glass of water.” Are you serious? A generation where you will make coffee for your racist boss, listen to your HR’s rants, but will throw a tantrum if your husband asks or says something one time. “Am I your maid?” You are not even your bosses maid, but……
6. Solve It Within Each Other
No relationship is perfect. But if there’s respect and no abuse, then communicate, don’t escape.
No outsider will ever understand the full picture.
Talk. Listen. Grow. Together.
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Let’s Un-Glamorize Marriage Until We Fix It
Marriage is not a trophy.
Not a retirement plan.
Not a rebound.
Not a rescue mission.
It’s a sacred decision. A conscious one.
And it demands emotional maturity, patience, loyalty, and effort from both sides.
Let’s stop fooling ourselves.
Let’s protect those who still believe in real love — before they lose faith too.